Life is hardā¦
But it can still be awesome.
Welcome to my corner of the internet, where I write about all of itāthe hard, the messy, the devastating, and the inspirational.
Minimalist
My name is Holly, and I am a minimalist.
Just kidding.
I DID read three books on minimalism this summer though, and I think that means something. š I bought in, completely. Life isnāt about stuff! I donāt need more storage bins and closets, I just need less stuff! I got super inspired and started going through a lot of things that we donāt use and donāt need anymore.
Heartbreak
We moved to Texas in the beginning of 2011. January 1, to be exact. There were some monumental things that happened in those first few months.
Lessons to Warnings
My life is peppered with mistakesāletās call them learning opportunities. That sounds better than I did another idiotic thing. But sometimes those lessons need to be shared. You should be warned.
Letās go.
Rabbit holes
For someone who really dislikes rabbits, I find myself going down rabbit holes quite often.
It usually ends badly.
Good job pitching.
My 12-year old son plays baseball.
His team is not good. He isnāt very skilled, and yet he really enjoys playing with the other boys on his team. Go figure. There was a game on Wednesday, and he started as pitcher. It was rough. ROUGH. I felt so badly for him, and was praying things would improve.
In situations like theseā¦
I went skiing this week.
Some of my fondest memories, laughing-til-I-cried moments, heartbreaking situations, and terrifying times have come from skiing. Itās intense.
Last spring break, Brian and I went with our family to Utah for a ski vacation.
Do SOMETHING
I was almost home from my daily walk, and looked over to see my neighbor on the ground, bleeding.
What on earth?
Names
My name generates a lot of comments, especially this time of year. I get a few people questioning if my name is REALLY my name, comments about how Christmas-y my name is, and most people asking if I was born around Christmas.
Just yesterday I was asked (again!) if my birthday was at Christmastime.
What you NEEDā¦
A while ago, I was scrolling on my phone and I came across a video that has haunted me every since. The person said we are now spending so much time on social media that we have created memories of other peoplesā lives, instead of making our own.
Who is the problem here?
After I took my daughter back to college, I flew home to Texas. The flight landed late at night, and Brian was still in surgery, so I waited at the airport until he could finish and pick me up.
The air outside was still hot and heavy with humidity, so I decided to wait inside.
Communication
If you know me, you may think one of my strengths is communication. Honesty comes naturally, and my approach is direct.
Yes and no.
Warped beliefs
My mom hated me.
I was absolutely convinced. My older sister had long, dark brown, beautiful hair, and I did not. I was so jealous of her hair. Our bathroom drawer held leather hair wraps, like the ones the Native Americans in my small hometown wore. I loved those things! I loved the smell of the leather and the softness of the straps. I pretended my hair was long, long enough to braid and cover with those beloved hair wraps.